Probate & inheritance · DE

What is the Delaware spouse allowance and does it affect selling an estate house?

A plain-language answer for Delaware homeowners, with the official sources listed below. Reviewed October 2026.

Short answer

The Kent County Register of Wills describes it as a surviving spouse's right to request up to $7,500 from the personal representative, in addition to what a will or intestacy gives. It is one of several claims on estate money, so it can matter before sale proceeds are shared.

What the allowance is

The Kent County brochure defines the spouse allowance as the surviving spouse's right to request up to $7,500 from the personal representative, on top of any provisions for the spouse in a will or under intestate law. The request must be in writing and sent to the Register of Wills. The figure comes from the May 2024 brochure, so confirm it is still current.

How it fits the personal representative's duties

The brochure's list of duties includes setting aside the spouse's allowance, if requested, and the spouse's elective share, as required by law. It sits alongside paying valid debts and filing an inventory. Because the personal representative must honor these claims, selling the house does not mean the money can simply be split among children. The estate's obligations come first.

Elective share in plain terms

The brochure defines the elective share as the surviving spouse's right to take a statutory share of the estate rather than under the will or the intestate laws. It does not set out the percentage on that page, so ask the attorney how it would apply to a house sale in your estate. A spouse who has not decided whether to elect can slow down a distribution.

Practical steps

Before listing, ask the estate attorney whether the spouse has made or may make a request. Keep sale proceeds in the estate account until claims are known. This page is general information and not legal advice. If the surviving spouse lives in the house, discuss how a sale date works with their housing plans.

Selling for cash instead

A surviving spouse who needs to move quickly may want a closing date that fits their plans rather than a market calendar. Kaizen Home Buyers is one option to compare. We pay cash, buy as-is and charge no agent commission, so you do not fix anything first. We can send an offer within 24 hours and close in 14 to 30 days or on your schedule. Call 267-329-0084.

Sources

General information, not legal or tax advice. Rules change; confirm details with the office or a professional.

  1. What do you do when someone passes away? (county brochure) (Kent County Register of Wills (Delaware), May 2024)
  2. Kaizen process steps (Kaizen Home Buyers, 2026-10-23)

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